There is a real threat associated with a battle of custody of a child who has become ugly. Fortunately, this is not always associated with a custody dispute, but when it comes to things can turn bad very quickly. I am thinking of parental alienation and is considered to be a psychological syndrome, often referred to as PAS. This happens when ekdikitiko parent indicate negative thoughts directly to a child about the other parent. Psychologically, this is considered to be brainwashing, which is actually a form of emotional abuse. This can occur in many different ways, but is almost always the same effect. The child begins to vilify the other parent and blames them for the many problems arising from divorce and child custody dispute.
PAS can occur when the parent PAS-inducing passes the thoughts and actions in the child at the point where the child begins to view the other parent as the enemy. Sometimes it is difficult to see if the child simply mimic the words of PAS-inducing parent or if he or she feels really what they say.If the child only at words that they really do not understand and just repeating what mother or father said, then there is a chance that PAS is not the case, but if the child says or does things on their own, such as refusing to speak with the other parent or gets upset/angry without reason and then PAS can be a real possibility.
There are three stages of PAS. During the first stage or mild, things are not as obvious. Contact between the child and the other parent does not necessarily have changed but noticed subtle changes to the activities of the child. For example, the child may become distressed during the transition from the parent PAS-inducing with the other parent.At this stage of the PAS-inducing parent rather indirect things that may or may not know is that it affects the child; for example, that do not appear with great concern as to whether the child has contact with the other parent, have little value in indirect contact of the child (ie phone calls) between direct contact (ie visitations), and/or does not know desperation a child may feel when they receive an indirect or direct contact with the other parent. The parent PAS-inducing places little importance to the child's contact with the other parent, and eventually the child begins to talk about these feelings as well.
In the second stage or mild form of PAS child is directly programmed against the other parent. A good indication for this stage is when the child is clearly upset and anxious during the transition from the parent PAS-inducing with the other parent. These feelings tend to move quickly enough, when the child is away from the PAS-inducing parent and be able to relax.Another example is when a child submits the other parent families is relatively insignificant. at this stage of the PAS-inducing parent is actively placing a child's relationship with the other parent. This may include refusing to communicate with the other parent, letting children (regardless of what age) to decide whether or not they want to make contact with the other parent, and/or appropriate negative statements about the other parent in the presence of the child. The strain caused by the parent PAS-inducing causes the child to form distinct worlds with each parent.
During the third stage or severe form, damage in the relationship between the child and the other parent has already been PAS. Indeed, the parent PAS-inducing no longer has to actively disrupt the relationship, such as the child has already had a very negative image of the other parent and often act on their own. Unfortunately, due to the very nature of the problem of PAS-inducing parent often intensifies the feelings that the child has about the other parent and will go to great lengths to see that the child has nothing to do with the other parent. Unfortunately, often consider them only for conveying the wishes of the child, that strengthens the relationship between PAS-inducing parent and child. At this stage, it is no longer in the child's feelings towards the other parent. Displaying a great hatred for the other parent and will go to great lengths to avoid any contact with them.This includes too dramatic actions include threatens to run immediately, making false allegations of abuse, or even threatening suicide. The child will always think of the parent inducing PAS, even if it is completely absurd and/or untrue. the child has a hard time differentiating what actually happens with the other parent and the parent PAS-inducing tells them what happened.The child shows absolutely no guilt or remorse about parent their hatred for each other, and often extend feelings towards the other parent relatives. the child may be perfectly normal until you asked about the other parent or where this will clearly display their hatred towards the other parent. Unfortunately, the link between child and parent PAS-inducing is simply because they share the same views about the other parent.
It is very difficult, painful situation where a child so great hatred towards a parent only because of their views instilled by ekdikitiko parent PAS-inducing.This is a type of hatred that cannot be learned, taught, much the same as racism.
I have a fear myself that this scenario is going on between my wife and daughter.I watched as their relationship has been strained just as a result of the actions of the ex-spouse.Although I have a small role in the situation, I am obliged to maintain the relationship with his daughter, my wife kills me because mainly to see the crying some nights because of the things that says the 5-year-old daughter, or even worse, when they are "too busy" to talk about this. things can only be taught by the father. taken up my mission to learn everything I can about this kind of situation, and anything else that would have been during this battle have detained. relied largely on what is perhaps the best resource concerning custody child anywhere on the Internet [http://www.bestsite4reviews.com/childcstdy] is a library that covers each issue type for babysitting imaginable. has no children myself, has helped to understand what my wife and made it easier for me to help her, and to explain what I'm seeing and hearing the lawyer, in order to put an end to it before you get a point of no return.
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