Know your parenting style? why it is important to think about how you can increase your child can affect the whole of his life, as well as the ability to have relations with others. Basically, there are three schools of thought when it comes to raising children. In this article, we explore three and suggests a fourth.
Your parenting style is usually determined by how your parents raised.Although this is a hard truth about some parents to swallow if you ever find yourself acting just like your parents, then you know that this is true. unless you've spent the time to think about how you want to raise your children and what you plan to do otherwise, the method will resort to be used.
What better parenting styles describes how you interact with your children?
Authoritarian
Are you a parent that require obedience? prohibit your kids in your question, you're an authoritarian parent.
Children With an authoritarian styles, there can be no doubt who is responsible. The parent element is the boss and demands respect for the child who is expected to obey without question.
A child who disobeys is parektrepomenoi, shamed or punished.
Disadvantages of authoritarian parenting:
Parental relationship with the child is like master and slave. Be respectful of the child of the parent, but mainly because he is afraid of him.Such a child understands that usually the parent as a cold and distant.
A child who is coerced to good behaviour only may act accordingly when watching adult Penalty does not teach a child to be a moral human being--that teaches children how to avoid getting caught in.Parents who require respect often faced with all due respect to their children.
Such a child can grow up feeling bad about himself.Because his parents were not responsive to the needs, cannot form healthy relationships with others.
A child will be able to act compliant robotically and be able to think for himself.
Permissive
You can leave your kids run wild? You can leave your child to make decisions and choose not to fix it when it is taking or indifferent, you are permissive parent. This type of parenting is often a reaction from those raised by the authoritarian parents and want to have a better childhood than their children. Unfortunately, like most knee-jerk reactions, this type of parenting is extreme.
Permissive parenting is a parenting style in which parents let's do what will their children.Permissive parent more acts like a peer, by an authority figure. Little is done to teach appropriate behaviors.
Disadvantages of permissive parenting:
Since the child was over-indulged, the latter may rise to self-entitled.The child may not be sensitive to the feelings of the other Member and you may find it difficult to form relationships.The child may have problems at school.A child is encouraged to take decisions for himself, that it has developed the expiry date in order to do this, you may feel overwhelmed or confused, paralyzed with action in the world.As if the child has an authoritarian parent, the child does not have a parent who is acting in the best interest.Therefore, the latter may feel that there is no one to trust.
Validity
The final is the authoritative parenting style.(The current fiction refers to this style as a potential democratic.)This method recognizes that children should learn to make their own decisions, but we must learn how to do it in time. such a parent meets the needs of the child, but also teaches a child to be sensitive to the needs of others. If reliable household rules have parents who expect their children to follow, they encourage questions and are willing to negotiate under certain circumstances this style consistently produces parenting children who are here, perform well at school and get along with others.
Instead of being either end of the spectrum, this style parenting is somewhere in the middle. instead of being a reaction, is a response to what kids really need from us our act is as valid parents, evolving ideas about parenting children need while a guide to learning integrity, how to get along with others and how does the world need a guide to love, reliable.Parenting is about connecting and engaging.When you understand this, you can create a beautiful relationship with your child. why fourth and clearly different parent style, link-engagement and explore fully in my opinion, the children of the owners.
Although during times of stress, we unconsciously may resort to the parenting styles used by our parents, it is possible to forget what programming and to raise children in a way that is humane and respectful--way associated with your vision for your child.
About the author: Laura Ramirez is the author of the award-winning, children of holders: Wisdom in American and Parenting-http://www.walk-in-peace.com/keepers.html. This unique book combines ancient native ideas (stewardship) with the most advanced psychology to show parents how to raise children to develop their natural strengths and grow up to lead purposeful and fulfilling life is a book about linking, care for and engagement.
Laura also is editor of family matters have children Magazine what features insights into the key issues of today's parents face-http://www.parenting-child-development.com
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